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Distributed under license by The Gottman Institute, Inc. Gottman Repair Checklist 1. I’m getting scared. 2. Please say that more gently. 3. Did I do something wrong? 4. That hurt my feelings. 5. That felt like an insult. 6. I’m feeling sad. 7. I feel blamed. Can you rephrase that? 8. I’m feeling unappreciated. 9. I feel defensive.
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Gottman Repair Checklist I Feel I'm getting scared. Please say that more gently. Did I do something wrong? That hurt my feelings. That felt like an insult. I'm feeling sad. I feel blamed. Can you rephrase that? feeling unappreciated. I feel defensive. Can you rephrase that? Please don't lecture me. I don't feel like you understand me right now.
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3 wrz 2014 · Repair is easily my favorite concept in the entire Gottman encyclopedia. Typically, we think of repair in terms of what we have to do to a car or a washing machine or a botched haircut. As in, it’s broken, it needs repair. But in relational terms, repair is less about fixing what is broken and more about getting back on track.
Gottman Repair Checklist * * I Feel 1. I’m getting scared 2. Please say that more gently. 3. Did I do something wrong? 4. That hurt my feelings. 5. That felt like an insult. 6. I’m feeling sad. 7. I feel blamed. Can you rephrase that? 8. Please don’t lecture me. 9. I don’t feel like you understand. 10. Sounds like it’s all my fault ...
Microsoft Word - Repair - Gottman. A repair attempt is a key concept in the Gottman Method, and it refers to any statement or action— verbal or non-verbal—that prevents negativity from escalating in a conflict or disagreement.
